What makes Tom Gilliam a trusted Farmington Hills Realtor?

Tom Gilliam brings decades of experience, deep community knowledge, and a client-first approach to buying and selling homes in Farmington Hills. His strong negotiation skills and understanding of local market trends help clients secure the best deals whether they’re first-time buyers or seasoned investors.

How do I start searching for homes for sale in Oakland County?

With Tom's personalized home search strategy, you gain access to the latest Oakland County real estate listings before they hit the public MLS. He listens to your goals, curates the best-fit properties, and offers expert guidance from showing to closing — all while educating you on market dynamics.

What should I know about homes for sale in Farmington Hills?

Farmington Hills offers a diverse housing market, from mid-century family homes to upscale estates. Tom Gilliam helps you understand school districts, property taxes, resale value, and neighborhood character — so you make confident, informed choices.

Why choose a real estate agent in Novi, MI like Tom Gilliam?

Novi is a fast-growing, desirable suburb with a competitive market. Tom’s local insights, from the best schools to upcoming developments, make him a strategic partner when buying or selling real estate in Novi, MI.

What is the market like for Royal Oak real estate?

Royal Oak remains one of the most sought-after areas for its walkability, downtown life, and investment potential. Tom Gilliam tracks inventory levels, pricing trends, and community growth to help you make smart moves in this high-demand market.

How can I find West Bloomfield Michigan homes for sale that fit my lifestyle?

Whether you're looking for lakefront homes, modern builds, or peaceful cul-de-sacs, Tom Gilliam uses detailed criteria and market analytics to match you with the right West Bloomfield property that aligns with your budget and vision.

Is Bloomfield Hills real estate a good long-term investment?

Absolutely — Bloomfield Hills is known for luxury properties, strong school districts, and long-term value. Tom Gilliam helps buyers evaluate opportunities and sellers position their homes effectively in this high-end market.

What are the key things to consider when buying a home in South Lyon, MI?

South Lyon offers a small-town feel with quick access to major highways and metro areas. Tom Gilliam guides you through hidden neighborhood gems, new construction opportunities, and long-term value in South Lyon real estate.

How can I narrow down houses for sale in Farmington Hills that meet my needs?

Tom Gilliam uses a custom approach — combining tech tools, local insights, and client conversations — to identify homes with the right floor plan, location, and features. He saves you time while ensuring you don’t miss the perfect fit.

Why is working with a local Oakland County real estate expert so important?

Real estate is hyper-local. Tom’s knowledge of Oakland County neighborhoods, zoning changes, school boundaries, and hidden market opportunities allows you to buy or sell with clarity and confidence.

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For widows considering a move in Oakland County, Michigan

Moving after losing a spouse isn’t just about boxes and addresses — it’s about emotion, memories, and courage. This checklist is designed to help you move forward at your own pace, combining the practical with the personal.

Let's Dive In

1. Emotional Readiness: Taking Stock of Your Heart

Before sorting a single drawer, take time to reflect.

This isn’t a race — it’s a gradual turning of the page.

Ask yourself:

☐ Am I ready to think about a new space, or do I still need time where I am?

☐ What do I hope my new home will bring me (peace, connection, easier living)?

☐ Who can be my “moving support team” — friends, family, or trusted professionals?

☐ Have I talked with loved ones about my wishes and concerns?

Tom’s tip: You don’t have to feel 100% ready. Often, clarity comes one box — or one conversation — at a time.

2. Right-Sizing Your Next Home

Think about what kind of home matches the life you’re living now — not the one you used to manage.

Consider:

☐ Would I prefer one-level living or low-maintenance condo life?

☐ Do I want to be closer to family, friends, or familiar community spots?

☐ Is walkability (downtown Farmington, Northville, or Birmingham) important to me?

☐ Do I want room for hobbies, guests, or a small garden?

Local insight: Many widows in West Bloomfield and Bloomfield Hills are choosing smaller ranch homes near the lakes, while those in Farmington or Novi often love condo communities with active neighbors and less upkeep.

3. The Great Downsizing: Sorting Through a Lifetime of Memories

This is often the hardest part — and that’s okay. The goal isn’t to erase memories, but to honor them while freeing space for your next chapter.

Step-by-Step Approach

A. Gather supplies: sturdy boxes, labels (“Keep,” “Gift,” “Donate,” “Unsure”), and tissues (for both dust and tears).

B. Go one space at a time: closets, kitchen, basement — small, achievable sections.

C. Ask yourself for each item:

Does this still serve a purpose in my life now?
Does it hold a memory I want to carry with me or pass on?

D. Four Pathways for Your Belongings

Tom’s tip: If you’re unsure about something, create a “Maybe Box.” Seal it, date it, and revisit in a month — decisions feel easier with time.

4. Planning Your Move

☐ Get a professional market evaluation of your current home (no pressure — just insight).

☐ Review your financial picture: potential proceeds, moving costs, property taxes on a new home.

☐ Explore neighborhoods that fit your lifestyle (quiet lakeside? walkable downtown?).

☐ Create a timeline: decide whether to buy first, sell first, or coordinate both.

☐ Research movers familiar with downsizing transitions — many offer packing help too.

Local Resource Idea: Consider a consultation with a Senior Move Manager or Professional Organizer who specializes in life transitions — I work with several trusted local partners who handle this gently and efficiently.

5. Settling In — and Letting New Roots Grow

☐ Unpack slowly; decorate with items that bring calm and comfort.

☐ Get connected: join local community groups, faith gatherings, or hobby clubs.

☐ Keep a journal of “new beginnings” — it’s amazing to see how your life evolves.

☐ Celebrate small wins: “I did it — I changed the address on all my bills!” is worth a little happy dance.

Tom’s tip: Home isn’t just where we live — it’s where we feel safe to keep becoming ourselves.

6. Resources & Next Steps

Here are some helpful links and local contacts to include:

Charitable Donations: Habitat ReStore Farmington Hills, Grace Centers of Hope

Property Tax Info: Oakland County Treasurer’s Office

Home Evaluation Request: Homes2MoveYou.com

If you’d like to talk through your specific situation — whether you’re just exploring options or ready to move — I’m here with empathy, local knowledge, and a steady hand to help guide your next step.

Tom Gilliam, REALTOR®

Homes2MoveYou.com | (248) 790-5594

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